Sorry I am typing on mobile so format may be bad.
The other day my (25F) bf (26M) were hanging out. I have long been insecure about my body and he is fully aware of this. I have small boobs and he likes them big. He often watches videos with girls with big boobs and sometimes makes comments which I have said make me uncomfortable. Lately he’s been thinking of going out and joining some social groups and in said social groups there may be attractive women. He suggested I get a boobjob to help my insecurities and while I can understand that I am still uncomfortable by it. He didn’t push for it and just sorta brought it up. I cannot tell if he is genuinely being considerate or is being a red flag. How should I talk to him about his breast preference? How should I tell him that the suggestion was extremely hurtful when it occurred a while ago?