My boyfriend and I been together for a year. Our sex lives have always been rocky. We are both physically attracted to each other however a lot of the times he finishes extremely fast. Couple mins tops. Sometimes I’m lucky if he’ll last 20 min.
Not going to lie most days with my job I’m tired so I don’t mind it ending quick but days when I actually want to be satisfied it makes me upset.
We’ve had this discussion numerous times and we even brought toys in. Toys only last so much and talking to him is getting pointless. He has made an effort to help me finish but it’s just not the same from his actual (not sure if I can use the term on here) but his tool.
Outside of sex he’s the most amazing partner and that’s why I’m torn