First post on reddit and English isnt my first language, so excuse any mistakes. I (24F) am friends with this girl, let’s call her V (24F). V and I are in university together and have a lot of mutual friends. Basically, V had a new years party a couple of weeks ago and I found out she didnt invite me. She knew I had stayed in town and she also stayed in town during new years.
but she invited all of our mutual friends and even some people that were friends of a friend. She invited everyone in our extended friend group and then some. To be fair, V and me arent best friends but we have hung out together at other peoples places and gotten food together and I see her pretty often. Looking back, I guess I havent talked too much to her over the past few weeks but its not for any reason (just been busy and life happens), and we still interacted like normal and were friendly. We also have never had problems or any negativity between us, so I dont really know what the deal was.
I also know that she doesn’t owe me anything, but i would be lying if I said I wasnt at least surprised. Some of our mutual friends that were there were surprised when I told them I wasnt invited and were confused that other people were there but I wasnt.
I dont expect to be invited to every gathering but this was just surprising to me because it feels so deliberately done to exclude me because of who else was there. How am I supposed to act around her now knowing this and what am I supposed to do? She clearly doesnt like me for some reason and this all seems to have come out of nowhere.
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TLDR; my friend invited everyone in our extended group except me to her new years party and i dont know how to move forward with her now