I never use reddit but figured i’d get some help, I (M23) have been talking to this Woman (F22) for about a few weeks now, everything is normal. We have expressed interest for each other and want to pursue each other. I am very outdoorsy strong/level headed, enjoys the gyms but introverted. She is a homebody, doesn’t go outside but only when she absolutely has to. I don’t mind that because I like staying in when I can but need a balance of doing stuff outside. I fear this might be a problem down the road because I will want to do stuff outside with her but she will most likely say no (i’ve already asked her to hangout multiple times and has turned me down). She has extremely high levels of anxiety which doesn’t bother me and i’m willing to be there for her. But I feel like she lives in the past way too much and I live in the present/future. This morning she mentioned to me about a dream she had with her ex guy best friend, should I be concerned about this? She told me it means nothing to her but why have dreams of ex people in the past? Regardless of ex gf/bf or ex friend. I’m one to cut people out and never associate with them again but I know everybody is different in that aspect. Ik some people hold onto their ex’s but I let them go. I have a feeling that we aren’t compatible because of our indifferences. Especially with how I need to be outside and she wants to stay indoors every single second. I’m stuck and at a crossroad and don’t know what to do. Any advice?
EDIT: She also smokes her vape daily and I don’t like smoking nor can stand it.