I’ve been dating this guy for about 4 months. I like him and things have been generally going well , but we’re not boyfriend and girlfriend. Is it too soon to sort of have a check in and kind of see where this persons head is at meaning do they see this growing long term, etc. what are some suggestions of checking in without sounding too aggressive but to the point? Prior to this I was in a three year situationship and I am trying to completely avoid the same mistake! I rather cut my looses sooner rather than later if it’s a dead end !
I want to say we are exclusive meaning we aren’t talking to others but we are not boyfriend and girlfriend. Unfortunately in today’s world that is a difference.
For reference I’m F33 and he is M39.