My boyfriend went out for dinner with one of his friends who is a girl. I’ve known about her since the beginning because she’s part of the group but by no means at all are they close friends and this is the first time that they’ve ever hung out in the 3 years that me and him have been together. We all live in LA now. They grew up in the same country in Europe together, but they didn’t know each other while they were growing up. My boyfriend went back to his home country for the holidays and left one of his credit cards at his parents house. This girl picked it up while she was there and brought it back, so they were meeting for him to pick up the card. Anyways, he left for dinner around 9 pm and our door opens at 1:35 am and I’m awoken by them coming in. I thought okay maybe she needs to use the bathroom. Nope. I hear a bottle of wine open. They’ve been sitting drinking wine and talking for the last 45 minutes and I’m just in the bedroom in absolute belief. I’m feeling really fiery and honestly like this crossed the line for me but before I unleash I think maybe it’s better to cool down and get some outside perspectives. How would you feel in this situation?
EDIT: I just want to clarify something that I feel like a lot of people are not understanding. They haven’t not seen each other for 3 years. We all live in LA. ii was stating in the almost 3 years that my boyfriend and I have been together, my boyfriend and this girl have never hung out together, despite us all living in a 5 mile radius. She is a girl we’d see at parties and say hello to. I barely knew they were friends.
FINAL EDIT: It’s not about them banging and it’s not about them hanging out. It’s about my man bringing home another woman to our house for hours at 1:30 am while I’m sleeping to drink and do drugs with….. it’s extremely disrespectful and inappropriate. Although most of the people here don’t see it that way, I’m glad I made this post to help me solidify how I feel about this situation.