Idk how else to describe it. I’m a 23 yr old guy not a particularly charming person. I have a few friends never had a relationship I’m relatively average. My problem is people who are particularly troubled in life or feel more outcastes tend to become for lack of better words infatuated with me. Not in necessarily a romantic way but, they start telling me all their problems and feeling like we’re ‘in this together’ really early on. It’s exhausting and it’s alright when I get somewhat attached to the person but, when Im not or ,even worse, I don’t like them then it gets cumbersome. I don’t know how to let them down easy without putting them in a worse place. Anybody else go through this