Using throwaway bc he browses reddit.
We have been together for 2 years. We have a great relationship and I am content with most things in our life together. However, I have certain fantasies I have expressed to my bf before. I like it when men are vocal in bed, moaning or calling me names etc. I have expressed these to my bf before, and he profusely refused everytime, saying it is ridiculous for a man to make noise in bed and is not “manly”. His words exactly. Recently, he got himself a new pc, I think it is a special one designed for performane in video games, I am not so sure. He has been obssed with it and I am also as happy as he is. Maybe I can get something similar and play together one day. However, back to topic, I have been hearing him being quite loud and excited talking to some people. He told me that it was his friends who already had good Pcs and my bf can now join them. While on call with them, he seems quite “eager” and ” willing” I have heard him scream girlishly, almost moan and call someone “daddy”. I do not know exactly what is going on that screen, but from what I can tell, he mostly plays a game where cartoonish looking cars play soccer. he just seems to overly “enjoy” himself while playing this game. He usually moans whenever he scores a “goal”. The things he says are all I wanted him to say to me and do to me, now he can do all of it without any fuss? When I asked him about it, he argued that this was totally different from what would go on in bed. He said this is normal because it is funny. I can understand if it was a joke for a time or two, but this started to become a daily occurrence. He usually opens calls by “Hi daddies, ready for some gaming with your pookie wookie” for gods sake. How can I approach him on this topic?