I’m a 26M. Been sexually active since 17, and most of my life I have known myself to cum within a minute of having sex or when a girl goes down on me. I always assumed it was just cuz I’m young, and I’d grow out of it. Sadly it still happens, and I can’t control it. It’s not the end of the world because my testosterone is so high, I’m able to keep an erection and go another round (then usually lasting way longer). But I hate that because the intensity of the moment dies since I have to pull out & clean myself/her up before me and the girl bang again, which can take a minute or two. To combat this nowadays, I will masturbate before sex so I can last longer the first time I fuck the girl that night. But I don’t want to do this anymore. I hate that I feel like I have to.
Long story short, how do I fuck on the first try without busting in 30 seconds?