I’ve come to realize that I’m too gentle for most women that I’ve encountered, but I’m just not a hard person (being black I guess it’s just expected of me but it’s not who I am). I like me though, I’m not changing. I’m ready for my one good girl, already had the thousand bitches. I really hate arguing, I don’t yell. Rather sit down and talk calmly. I’m super cuddly and affectionate and that’s given a lot of women an ick just cuz a husky black man doesn’t really fit the bill for that kinda stuff I guess. But I really only seem to attract toxic and violent women. I’m tired of it, I’ve dealt with enough stress to last a life time. I just want someone I can be gentle with that will reciprocate that energy