I’ve been sleeping with my now gf (f24) for months now, using condoms the entire time. she recently switched from an IUD to hormonal birth control due to side effects of the implant. the sex is great, but I have a hard time finishing with a condom on. i figured it was mental blocks, anxiety, etc, but sometimes I would straight up give up and just make sure she has an orgasm. I believe that sex doesn’t require an orgasm to be sex, especially when it’s still fun and intimate, but I’d still like to be able to finish with her. I also haven’t had this problem to this extent with previous partners.
one night in the heat of the moment, we didn’t use a condom, and it only took me a minute to need to pull out and cum. so now I think it’s a sensitivity issue for me. however we are both nervous about pregnancy, and don’t want to have to stress about the risk involved. any guys have tips about how to make yourself able to cum with a condom? I’ve already cut out porn and stopped masturbating for the most part.