Hi everyone. To make a long story short.
I have been told for many years now in relationships, friendships, and even at work that I come across as an intense person. My friends and people that know me, they know that’s just how I am and accept me for it.
In all honesty I never feel like I’m coming across as intense. I have been for years very direct when conversations for my former job(selling cars for 6 years) required me to do so. It’s how I connected with people very fast and was able to consistently bring in a big customer base and sell a lot of cars.
I now manage a restaurant for a living.
I feel that being direct in communication is always the best way to be but not everyone sees it that way and I come across as intense. I always have the best intentions for people and truly want everyone to win in life. I have such a huge passion for people.
Why do I feel this way? Has anyone else experienced this?