I have had some issues with my boyfriend about social media use. Him following 1000 girls on tik tok, instagram and facebook. I though we were over it. Then he adds naked women on tik tok and uses the old instagram profile he told me he didn’t use and didn’t remember the log in for and he did everything he told me he wouldn’t. Also I feel like he lacks boundaries with female friends. Maybe I am too much but I am pissed and I know I could never.
It is not insecurity, it is a lack if respect and care since I told him and I agreed. He can do what he want but he needs to understand that if that’s what he want then I am not gonna stay for it and I don’t want ro berate him over and over. How can I trust him in the future if we have a problem, post partum and I cant sex, he is travelling or out alone if this is his character.
I texted him about it and said we could talk later. He has deleted 500 people on tik tok and 100 on facebook, I feel like we need to talk but I don’t want to be lied to and deleting again after we talked just seem pathetic to me. I don’t know if I am overreacting and I am so angry and hurt. It does I can’t trust and I now worry about being cheated on later if this is n’how he is now 9 months in.
I don’t know what to do or if we can move on from this?
Tl;dr: my bf follows 1000s of women on socials and his old ig he said he doesn’t use. Today i saw him using it and adding girls on tik tok. Can i trust?