Ok it’s happened to me twice now on hinge in the space of one week. Both times I was having a decent conversation and we were going somewhere not like a “Hey, how’s it going?” type of message or response. I will forget to reply for a while but have seen their messages because I want to give a more decent reply/response when I have time but then by the time I check hinge again, they’ve disappeared which I assume means they unmatched me? But why??!? I feel like I was just starting to have a real conversation with them. I’m so frustrated 😩