I’m essentially wondering if I’m wrong for feeling this way, but my girlfriend never asks questions about me like how I’m doing or anything, and personally I like being asked about that stuff because it makes me feel like she actually wants to know, but she never does. We’ve had discussions about it and she’s promised to ask more about me but she just still never does. There’s even times I’ll come to her for some support and say like “man I had a really rough day today and I’m just really struggling mentally” or just flat out say “I’m really sad and down today” and she will just say something jokingly like “aw well that isn’t allowed” and not try and like talk to me about it or anything?
I don’t expect to be interrogated, I will willingly tell her how I am or how my day was and whatnot, but the point is I just really would like to feel like she wants to know how I’m doing. Especially since we’ve had multiple talks about it and how I feel about it and she has made no effort to make any sort of changes.
Along with that, often times when I do just start talking about my day or something that interests me, she just pulls out her phone and starts texting someone or looking at Facebook. In the times where she is actually being responsive to me, she will just go off topic and just go back to talking about her.
Is it unreasonable for me to be upset about this?
TLDR my girlfriend never asks how I’m doing even though she knows it’s important to me, and hasn’t made any changes after multiple conversations about it