Five years ago I was my optimal weight (strong but not giving into my eating disorder from my early teens years). I have gained 60lbs since the pandemic and I am looking for a man who sees potential in me. I have a pretty face, but need inspiration (hooking up with an attractive partner) to work with me and help me get healthier. I don’t know how to find this kind of work out buddy? I realize this sounds like I’m objectifying myself, but I genuinely want a man who will see my potential and help me strive for it. Is there any place I should specifically look?