I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend (18M) for 8 months now. He’s my best friend and I love him more than I’ve ever loved and i’m sure he’s endgame for me. I was broken up with my ex boyfriend (18M at the time of the breakup) about 2 months before I started dating my current boyfriend, however my current bf was my best friend all throughout the relationship and the break up, to which we both realized we liked each other and started dating. I had moved on from the relationship a month before we got together and have been giving our relationship my all. However recently he’s been doing things that remind me of my ex and things he did and my head keeps making comparisons between the similarities, making it hard to not think of him. It’s almost like deja vu (doing the same sports, same extracurriculars, etc.) I hadn’t thought of him after I moved on for a while. I don’t want a relationship with my ex nor do I want to reconnect with him, I’m just frustrated I’m thinking of him so often now and think it’s unfair to my boyfriend now. Is there something wrong? What should I do? Has anyone else dealt with this?
TL;DR – moved on from ex and started dating new boyfriend, haven’t thought of ex for a while, but now am thinking of him frequently.