I (22F) met this guy (30M) off Reddit, he seemed cool and we are from the same city. We started arguing (in a joking way) and started talking. He kept asking for a picture after sending his and I did send a picture of myself. I thought he was just being normal.
We called 3 times and everytime he called me…he would be like “your voice is so sexy, im hard”… he would make me feel uncomfortable by talking dirty. He called me every morning to wake me up and kept saying how much he wants to do shit with me (sexually). I even got mad and stopped replying and he never texted me..then comes back saying how im mean and toxic (which he finds attractive).
He wanted to meet up, but i said maybe after few months although we live in the same city. I do want to be normal friends but after 2 mins on call, he is like acting all sexual.
What do i do?
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If he makes you uncomfortable, stop talking to him. Listen to your gut.
Tell him he’s moving too aggressively and you’d like him to tone it down.
Please don’t meet up with this dude.
Nonconsensual sexual talk is considered sexual harassment. You know this, right?
Also, calling you toxic for no reason is negging. That’s an abuse tactic. Block and report him. He’s not a friend. Find better people to be friends with.
He’s a creep. Drop him.