I’ve had multiple experiences with a friend of my partners about the sex she is having or planning to have. I don’t often see this person as they live in another state, so we really don’t know each other that well. However, whenever we do spend time together, sex comes up. This latest visit she wanted advice about what to wear to a sex party.
These conversations always make me feel like I need to have very advanced and blasé opinions on the subject, or that I just need to shut up and be scandalized for her amusement.
At the heart of it, I think sex is just a boring topic of conversation. I don’t think it’s taboo or unspeakable, nor do I think there is anything wrong with embracing your sexuality. I’ll have deep and hilarious chats with close friends of mine about things that are happening in my sex life, but honestly it is the least interesting thing about me.
It feels like the equivalent of talking about the route you took to get somewhere or a time you did drugs and it was craaazy (you had to be there).
Any thoughts?