i (21f) understand physical attraction is important but i feel like with dating apps its more of a big deal than it should be for me.
id basically grown up only seeing romance and relationships in tv, film, on the internet etc so im kind of conditioned to this higher standard. it happens to myself as well, i have a really low self esteem about how i look.
im currently talking to someone who i think i get along with but im conflicted because of this issue, im not sure when ill be able to meet up with them but for now i really want to work on this insecurity and feeling like i and others have to look perfect otherwise they’re inferior.