Hi all. All my life I have struggled with the problem of having a much higher sex drive than my partners. Usually it all came down to me trying to lower my sex drive and them trying to have more sex.
I just got into a new relationship with a woman, 23F, who has had, in her words, a boring/unsatisfactory sexual life. She had this idea that sex wasn’t all that important. I was a bit worried at the start of our dating stage, but we gradually started having more sex. She used to have sex about 2-3 times per week when she lived with her ex, but now we do it like at least 2 times a day.
This sounds amazing, and it is, we’ve been discovering so much, she’s gotten so in tune with her body and what she likes, it’s honestly marvelous. We tried and successfully incorporated anal into our sex life, light BDSM, *very* light exhibitionism and so on. It honestly feels like a dream come true.
The problem is that I think she has some guilt about it, or at least that’s how I understand the situation. She feels like having this much sex is too much, even though she’s the one initiating most of the time, because I barely get the chance. I feel so satisfied sexually, but I can’t help but feel like I’m taking advantage of her sexual “awakening”? We go on dates, go to the movies, to the theatre, we cook and hang out together a lot apart from having sex, but she just makes it sound like all we do is fuck.
I tried talking to her but even she can’t put her exact feelings in her words. Is there anything I can do to help her navigate this newfound affinity towards sex?