As title says me (M29) and my so (F25) have been together for 9 years and swinging for the past 5 with great success and an amazing sex life inside our relationship as well.
Recently, we met with a couple (M42), (F41) where for the first time in years I couldn’t keep up. Every thrust was making it really difficult for me not to cum. However, it was not the typical excitement, she wasn’t that pretty, although her body was really to my taste. We had met another couple about a month ago, and had had sex with my gf twice the day before so I wasn’t loaded up.
A little bit of searching got me the result that there just are some women with what in porn is called a “killer pussy”, which just is too good a sensation to not go all the way.
So since we are meeting them again, I want to hold up against ger instead of having to get it hard again and again after cumming to “hold up” my end of the deal.
Is there something you can recommend to me? Typically with my gf and other women we have been swinging with, I had no such problem and sex can go on for a solid half hour.
I am generally fit but only lift weights, I have been thinking of:
* Doing some more cardio, although that wouldn’t help with the sensation
* Masturbating before meeting them, we always go for a drink first so I have the time on my side
* Maybe trying to edge, but again, the feeling is different and I won’t edge on my gf
* Trying condoms with some prolonging gel or factor
* Doing some kind of kegels
Let me know if you have tried any of these and it has worked!