Am i the problem in this situation?
Ok so on December 5th me and my 3 friends all made a groupchat for hang outs and such.
One of my friends lets name him. James (18) added one of his friends (Matthew 18) so at the time James was fwb with my best friend Mayra (17) and Matthew was in a toxic relationship. I thought Matthew was always cute but never pursued him since he had a girlfriend so i kept it friendly. Until one day Matthew had broken up with his girlfriend. Mayra (17) pushed me or well encouraged me to dm Matthew so i did.
We talked every day for a month and flirted even. Til on January first he had admitted that he liked me. He said that ever since he was added into our hang out group chat he thought i was pretty. After we basically confessed our feelings he would tell me that i was beautiful, he wanted to move out with me in an RV, get married, have kids, grow old. You get the jist. So one night me Mayra Matthew and James all hung out at a local backyard show. Matthew was being all shy and distant while i tried to make conversation. So towards the end Matthew kisses my cheek and hugs me and so i leave.
After this night he becomes distant, he revealed to me that he thought about his ex when he would think of me and it rubbed me the wrong way so we both agreed to fix the relationship and be open. Fast forward to 4 days later he tells me that we should be friends and he cant be in a “burden” of a relationship. I agree but this obviously breaks my heart because he was like a different person. Next thing you know is that he Is talking to a new girl and posting her.
After that me Mayra and James all stopped being his friend.
Did i do something wrong?
TL;DR the backyard show was the second time matthew saw me in person