Hi, I use to be a sugar baby. Older guys would pay me hundreds just to go out on a date with them. I have now put that life behind me and have been trying to date normally. I am currently dating this older doctor but the relationship is stressing me out. I feel like I am getting nothing out of dating him and he is getting everything out of it (because of my past life and being so use to guys paying me to date them, which he does not). He cooks me dinner, takes me out to fancy restaurants and tells me he is the happiest he’s ever been when he is with me. He loves dating me but dating is draining for me. He texts me multiple times a day and is constantly asking me out on another date. It’s actually a bit overwhelming for me, so I asked him to kind of calm down a bit. On our first date he told me he is going through a divorce (I didn’t/don’t like that), which should be finalized next month because it has been going on for almost a year. They both live in two separate homes and have been for almost a year. It is something about this relationship that is keeping me up at night in my thoughts. Is it the going through a divorce thing that’s bothering me, or the fact that I’m dating an older guy but not getting paid for it (I hope that’s not it), or the fact that he constantly wants to go out on a date that’s making me want to leave him? Did my past of being a sugar baby really screw up how I view men now? Am I doomed to be able to date normally or is he just too overbearing? Should I stay in this relationship or move on, it’s just so exhausting. Thanks.