I’m not saying alll men are like this because I’ve been in one committed relationship, marriage, now divorced and single, and all these years I’ve realized a pattern with the men who pursue me. THEY ALL WANT SOME AZZZZ.
No one’s talking about commitment and marriages with me, it’s just surface level type of conversations and flirting. I meet so many men when I go out and they all think they can get in my panties, and I’m like, why should I sleep with these men and not get anything back in return for it? And why do I have to weed through so much bullshit just to get one decent man who wants a committed relationship? I’m going to be honest, some of these men I wouldn’t even give the time of day to, like an old man in his 60s working as a housekeeper thinks he has a chance with a young woman in her 20s and 30s. I only date old men with good money if they’re paying to date me and ain’t no housekeeper going to be enough to satisfy my wants and needs. Bold and Old broke men 😂.
Even young guys as young as 17 to 25 trying to approach me, mostly younger men approach me and it just never goes any further than romantically dating for fun. I turn down guys under 21, too young for me, I’m already 30, I feel old enough to be their aunties. I finally met someone who is 30 but just wanted some AAZZZZZ. They’re either too old or too young. My dating life sucks. Smh
They all come up to me offering to pay me to date me . And no, I don’t dress provocatively when I go out. Some follow me, I have a stalker, but that’s a whole other story. Some guys don’t offer money to date me, they just straight up say,” I can be your munch”.. creepy perverts offering to sleep with me hahahaha 😂 the audacity! The delusions got them hallucinating 😂 All I know is I got my weapons 🔫 🔪 if they try something with me cause some of them sketchy homeless men trying to follow me and no this is not the hood, it’s California and there’s homeless people sleeping in front of $3000-$20000 highrises.
Anyway, my point is, why do many men get mad when some women want to charge for their time??, when many men want to just use different women for sex. Why is it seen as a bad thing to use them like they use us?