Hi friends,
Gf (32) is having internal battles about some things that are shocking her, for context, I am 30, we have been dating for 6 months and most of her internal battles aren’t necessarily negative (I actually think they are positive, I’ll list a few examples but would like some guidance on how to proceed.
1. We were in bed, and she wanted to sleep towards my side of the bed (this was not a big deal to me at all and I actually liked it), but she said “I’ve never done this before where I’ve automatically gone to the other side of the bed unconsciously)
2. She confides in me about work and family situations in details and said “I’m shocked by this because I don’t even tell my close friends about my situations” (again, I’m proud that she can confide in me and this isn’t a big deal to me)
She knows I’m a good guy and can see I treat with her respect, I haven’t said “I love you” yet but I think she sorta gathers that, I don’t think I should say it first until she says it, I think?
But in general, she seems to have these “internal battles” about things that I consider positive, as in she opens up more and more, do I just let time do it’s thing and be patient and support her as needed?
Tl;dr: gf has internal battles about our relationship because she does stuff unconsciously towards me that she has not done before