Hi all,
I feel like I usually have pretty good openers and can be witty funny to start a convo with a girl I match with online, but usually after a bit it kinda just dies down. It starts to feel a little job interview like and going through the motions.
I’ve been trying to push for an early date because I find I’m a much better conversationalist in person, and I’m leery of diving too much in texting because I find it can kinda ruin the date, but a lot of girls say they want to chat a bunch first. Idk, I’m finally getting some matches and enjoying the convos at first, but it just kinda…slips away at some point. Any tips?
I wish I could just be hot so I could just set a date with the like, 4th message lmao. Oh well. Maybe once I get shredded.
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Have more phone conversations, if you’re a good communicator use that skill set since you alluded to not being handsome, which is a thing in itself because confidence matters, but anyway get off the apps, get their number and try to have a phone conversation when you get that phone conversation make it the best one she has ever had! Plain and simple!