I (F18) had my first time around three days ago, of course it was painful, and I ended up bleeding a lot so we stopped so my body could settle.Today we tried again and yet again it was painful and I bled.
we use lube, condoms and had a heap of foreplay so I’m starting to consider maybe I should see my dr about this? everywhere I’ve searched online it recommends for me to ‘use more lube’ and ‘do more foreplay’ but I don’t think that is the issue here. has anyone else experienced this?
for more context we were both virgins, I really am physically attracted to this guy and he makes me feel so special and appreciated.
my antidepressants make my libido pretty low so I haven’t explored myself much which may contribute to this!
if any more context is needed don’t be afraid to ask!
any advice would be appreciated!!