Hello , so this is my first post on reddit .Why do I keep changing personality according to people like for example when I am with someone who does not swear I would also try not to swear but then if I swear even once in front of them they would be like oh I didn’t know you swear also I don’t even want to be friends with them anymore but scared of hurting feelings this is a continuous pattern with me then I start feeling claustrophobic in a friendship and want to end all ties pls share some tips for how can I start to disengage and find my own personality xo sorry if any grammatical error my first language in not English