Couple of buddies and I were at a bar Saturday night and got to talking about what we find attractive. One guy likes curvy/busty women with tattoos. Another mentioned liking women with big bottoms. I am attracted to skinny women who have a girl-next-door look — and am turned off by lots of tats and big butts.
My question is: is any of that unfair or unreasonable or narrow-minded? If it were liking a particular race, I’d think it becomes a kink, maybe? Should we all try to ignore our preferences and be open to more possibilities, or is that even worse (trying to trick yourself)?