Maybe less “stop” and more “be better at recognizing and halting incoming pedantry” but I got into a disagreement with my roommate/friend that has left me in a funk since. She told me that whenever we talk about things I enjoy I tend to be pedantic. I had to look up exactly what she meant and I had no idea I was stepping over her inputs into the topic when my brain thought we were brainstorming together. Now I’m honestly afraid to say anything around her and things have become awkward between us. How does one go about controlling this part of yourself that feels so uncontrollable and natural?