What’s up folks,
I just finished grad school at an Ivy League with a strong GPA and full of confidence, yet i feels like unable to accomplish my dreams because of my past and prevailing behaviour.
For some context, I am looking for a job and finding a girlfriend (obviously the reason why I’m on this sub lmao) but my long-standing pessimism has been a terrible factor so far. I believe i am a good person, but I felt like a nobody for my whole life due to the harsh treatment I receive from my father and past male friendships.
Now I just want to move on and figure out the person I want to be, through finding the woman I would care and a work. What were the best tips you guys knew to fight against anxiety / fatalism ?