Partnered with someone with severe lifelong erectile dysfunction and other sexual issues I would rather not go into too much detail about. (Yes, we’ve tried literally everything and seen more doctors and sex therapists than we can count.)
For those of you that have sexual surrogates, what were your preferences?
That they lived close by? Far away?
That you and your partner were familiar with them? Or did you prefer a stranger?
Did they have any other involvement in your life?
What was their relationship like with your partner? Were they friendly? Or did they not want anything to do with each other?
How often were they there for you? As often as you felt you wanted them or needed them? Or not often enough?
My partner and I are currently looking for someone. We’re just trying to narrow down our options.