Having the best sex of my life after ending a 21 year marriage with a dead bedroom. This man is so good in bed that I feel like I don’t even deserve this level of pleasure. Like no joke, he is worth the 20+ years I waited with almost no sex. So I want to be as good in bed as possible. I’d literally take classes and train if it were a thing.
I find that on top, no matter which way I’m facing, especially if my feet are touching the mattress, I can’t move my hips much more than up and down. I am 43, in good shape, hypermobile, but my low back isn’t super flexible, was a dancer through college, so I can move my hips really well standing, but even then I can’t do a twerk motion to save my life. I also notice that since I started spin classes my hips are tighter, so that isn’t helping me.
When I’m on top facing him on my knees, I can move my hips in circles and front to back, but if I change to a squat position, I’ve got NOTHING. When I reverse cowgirl, same thing. On my knees I can do a little better, but not great. My knees hurt after a while when I’m bent all the way down on them, but I also orgasm so much that way that I get tired and too sensitive.
There is a bit of a size difference. I’m 5’3 115 and he is 6’3 230 so some things are just tough anyway. We explore every position possible bc we usually have sex at least an hour. He never complains and will do anything I ask. I just want to be able to give him a break from doing all the work and rock his world. I want him to feel as good as I do.
Help!