i dont know who else to turn to but im worried for her mental health and i think i am being a burden. she says not to stop calling her but obviously she isnt going to tell me to stop contacting her. i want to stop i am being so selfish and usign her as an emotional dumpster I know. so I need to stop but when Im in the moment of just being anxious or upset I dont know I just need someone to tell me its going to be okay.