Hi everyone. I feel like I am the queen of getting ghosted.
I matched with a guy off Hinge. I am 24 and he is 28. We both live in a big city work full time and have our own separate lives… obviously. We hit it off great the first night. We went out for drinks and ended up staying out the entire evening until 6am the next day. Met some of his friends that night as well. NO drugs were involved. The night was magical on both ends and I slept with him that morning. Passionate and creative , best I have had in awhile.
Later that week we hung out at the gym… I even got him to do a yoga class with me while his favorite sports team was playing… SHOCKED he did it. I found out a lot of thing about him and turns out we are very very very similar. Our life goals and core beliefs and values are aligned almost the same.
We hung out this last weekend just one on one and watched football and movies and had sex again. Twice. The second time I made a comment and said “i need to have an orgasm” because i was close to finishing and then we switched up positions. I feel like he did not understand this and I ruined the mood, and his manhood.
The next morning there was a disconnect. NO snuggles , no kiss. Immediately checking his phone to update himself on his sports team. He offered to make breakfast but then realized he had nothing. He walked me back and that was the last I saw him. No kiss no hug just a “bye!” I told him not to watch the show we started without me and he said he wouldnt.
I texted him that night about his sports team and he never answered me. Did I really ruin things by making that comment? I know sex is a touchy subject but was that comment a dealbreaker to him and his manhood? Things were going really well so i thought…
We religiously go to the same gym just at different times. I feel thats my only chance to ever see him again. WHat is everyones thoughts here?