Hugging, kissing, massaging, actually cuddling through the night etc. How much does your partner touch you throughout the day/night?
Physical contact, preferably skin contact, is very important to my GF. Don’t get me wrong, I love it and I’ll never get enough of her! But I haven’t been in this situation before in previous relationships.
We have been together for a little over two years, living together for about a year. Both in our mid 30s if that’s important.
We work together but different departments and we keep it professional at work. But I love coming home every day to a firm hug and a lot of kisses. She’ll hug me from behind every chance she gets, pecks me on the neck, doesn’t walk past me without touching me. We hug spontaneously several times a day just because we feel like it and she always puts her hands under my t-shirt for skin contact. Most nights we’re spooning one way or the other through the night, preferrably naked for maximum skin contact and almost every night she strokes my back/chest/stomach/arms/hair in her sleep which I think is weird (but still love).
It almost goes without saying this leads to a great sexlife, but I don’t think that’s the intent at 7.30 every morning before we leave for work. So this is not all sexual.
Is this normal for women? Or did I get lucky finding someone this compatible after never having experienced anything like this before in previous relationships? What are your experiences?