I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months and we’ve known each other for about 6 months. She would always distance herself from sex and would say that she wasn’t ready yet so we would mostly do foreplay and etc. Recently we tried and failed. (She was willing and I didn’t try to persuade her in any form or kind) She is not very willing to see a doctor, she says that we should try until we succeed but it mostly ends with just two fingers being too much for her. I feel frustrated and unexcited for sex. And I always have this putrid feeling whenever I think about sex or masturbation. I haven’t dated her enough to just sacrifice sex out of my life. But I feel that if I break up with her the condition might worsen. After the discovery she has become very vocal with her dependency towards me. And I frequently hear about how she needs me and how I changed her life for the better. Which I feel is a little unfair. I’m not willing to continue this relationship in the case this reluctant, disgusted feel I have about sex continues. These are my thoughts. What should I do?

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