Context, I’m 31, married for about 2 years. First kid is coming in a month or so.
Moved to a new city with her about a year and a half ago. She grew up here, family is here. I grew up about 5 hrs away. This is the closest I’ve lived to my parents since high school.
I’ve lived in 4 different cities since college, 1 while living with her. Always could figure out friends/community outside of my work. Either through sports/gyms.
I just cant figure it out here. I’m getting crushed. Still don’t have anything here. Really hard to bc she is loving it. Back with friends and family.
Idk what the solution is. I’ve been away from other places long enough I don’t think moving back with fix it. My job has gone well, but means i no longer have peers locally. Just people that roll into me somehow. I just feel on a island.