So obviously with the title I have a kink initiating sex with a sleeping partner. I have managed to playfully in passing bring it up to partners before and have had them receive it well but it still feels awkward to initiate an actual conversation to establishe boundaries. Not exactly the most common kink .
The conversation always feels like hey, I want to take absolute control while you have no control. You okay with that? It’s not weird or anything right? 🙃 Maybe it’s because sleep is usually considered so sacred to most people, but enough of the tangent.
Being that this is not the most common thing, how should I approach the conversation with a new partner to establish boundaries early, has anybody had any experience similar? I learned in the past few years that sexually I’m bad at taking care of my own needs and would love to communication help.