I’m going to be spending the weekend with a guy at the end of Feb, yes there will be sex. He’ll be driving about an hour to fetch me and will be dropping me off. I’d like to offer to cover half the expenses (fuel, food, alcohol, weed etc) I dont expect him to foot the bill. How do I word it so I don’t emasculate him or make it seem like I expected him to pay for everything? If he refuses to accept, how many more times should I offer?