It’s been a 3 year battle. We have a 1 and 3 year old and he just helps “when he can” and there is no routine and I’m the default parent all the time
I was hospitalised with a panic attack a few days ago from over stress.
He is hounding me to “fix” my stress problem so I proposed to him maybe we can take turns in the full bedtime routine
(Meaning the full cycle from make them dinner, bath, change, teeth then put to bed)
One person can do it one night, another person the next. I have tried so hard to share the load, but he just never sticks to it and starts doing other chores instead of the kids.
He said he doesn’t think that will help anything and basically didn’t say any follow up. Obviously he wants me to fix my “problem” but he does t want to help more.
Is this marriage pointless?