My wife (39f) and I (38m) recently tested a theory about her vagina tightness. Basically when she really relaxes her muscles, her vagina tightens up and when she tenses she is less tight. Which we both think seems like the opposite of how that should all happen. Even her gyno has had trouble getting her to relax and has to use smaller instruments during exams.
When we have sex after she has an orgasm, thanks to my fingers, she’s still incredibly tight and there are (shorter) times it is too much for me.
Has anyone else experienced this seemingly inverse phenomenon, or are we unaware this is how most work? Based on her gyno conversations we think this is a her situation.
Before anyone asks, we’ve been together nearly 20yrs and just for some reason she decided to say “what happens if I do this?”. Yeah we probably could’ve figured this exact scenario sooner but passion gets in the way of science sometimes 😉