I’ve been hooking up with the same guy on and off for almost 10 years. At the beginning, we used to kiss when we would have sex. There were a couple years I didn’t see him because I was in a relationship. That relationship ended and he and I eventually picked things back up. One thing that we never started doing again is kissing though.
I love kissing. I think in some ways it feels more intimate than a lot of sex acts. He and I aren’t in a relationship or anything, we just have sex every couple weeks. But I want to kiss him. More so, I think what I want is for him to want to kiss me.
How should I approach this?