So I (25F) just had my first hookup and naturally I was nervous that I’d forgotten how.
For context I’d been sexually active with my ex 5-8 years ago and never had problems with penetration except of course during our first time (i was a virgin prior)
I was a bit hesitant to hook up at first because i was on my period (second day) but he was down for it which turned me on a lot. When he first tried putting it in, was painful. It felt like I was gonna get ripped open. We tried multiple times through the night and couldn’t figure it out. I tried cumming first, getting really wet, he even bought lube. He tried to finger me with one, then two, then three fingers (last one started to hurt) but we still couldn’t get his dick in. To be fair, this is only the second dick Ive had and he was much bigger and thicker than my ex. i noticed that through foreplay my period would stop at times and id get wet from being turned on. But when he’d try going in, it would really hurt and start bleeding out.
It’s just so so sooo frustrating because I was so horny (so was he) and we couldnt get it in because of the pain. He’s had tighter girls but was able to go in so maybe it’s my period? my first in a while? lack of experience? I was wondering if anyone had some advice on what went wrong and what I can do? 🙁 Im sorta scared to try sex again and let myself down.