My husband and I finally have some time to do something fun recently after months since our son’s birth. When we were actually doing it, it was just not the same. I felt like he didn’t put the effort to getting me off. Even though in the past I’ve said it was fine for him to just get off quickly, I felt like he would’ve known that I wanted something more. During the moment I didn’t want to get into a big long talk about it so I didn’t really vocalize my needs so it just felt so horrible. I don’t know when we’ll actually get to do it again but I feel so frustrated just in general.