33f totally unfulfilled sexually and in desperate need of a spark and something to help me regain my confidence in myself and men.
I’ve been single for around 2 years after divorcing my ex husband of 6 years – together for 9 in total and in that time I’ve had a few sexual encounters, each of them extremely average or worse and this after 9 years of monotonous vanilla sex – my ex husbands idea of great sex was 3/4 minutes with me bent over or my legs on his shoulders and it never quite hit the spot, literally.
I have moved on but still nothing seems to quite be getting me where I need to be, in fact only 1 person ever has and quite sadly the best sex of my life remains from when I was 18, I’ve met the same guy I was seeing at 18 a few more times down the years and it’s still been fantastic but he’s now unavailable and I’m wondering if I’m the problem or is it something as simple as him being the biggest guy I’ve been with and hitting places others haven’t?
I’ve tried gels, stimulants and toys but nobody else seems to take me there, what am I doing wrong and how can I find someone who can give me an amazing orgasm again, I’m bored of alone time!