I’m 23F and haven’t been able to cum/orgasm with anyone other than myself. I rely heavily on my vibrator and porn. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months. He hasn’t made me cum yet, but he’s gotten very close which is exciting for me because I haven’t gotten this close before. Each time it feels like something might happen the “built up” feeling goes away. I feel like I’m trying too hard to try and cum, but if I don’t try at all then I won’t. I’ve gotten the most success when I’m stimulating my clit while he’s penetrating me in almost doggy style. He told me he stopped masturbating and it’s making our sex feel better. I told him I’d stop masturbating as well, but now I’m regretting it because it’s making me sexually frustrated. I don’t cum when we have sex and now I’ve stopped masturbating so I never get to release myself. I will say, I do think it’s making me stay wetter for longer when we have sex – which is something I’ve struggled with in the past. Will
no masturbation really lead me to orgasm success with my partner? Or am I just leaving myself sexually frustrated for no reason?