me and my husband have been married almost 4 months now. i can’t tell if it’s constantly being around him or if it’s because im in a bad place mentally right now but the lovey dovey feeling isn’t there. i know i love him but i don’t necessarily feel it. we don’t ever fight but he constantly does things when i say stop or things that he knows i hate. he loves to annoy me. it feels like we are in a rut but i can’t tell if it’s because we are or im just overthinking. right now when we are spending time with each other it doesn’t really feel like it. i know this probably makes no sense because im just word dumping but if anyone has advice id love to hear it.