So i’m talking to this girl…we’ve been talking since late june of 2023. Yk we flirt sometimes but only abut 2-3 times. It’s mainly just little teasers we send each other but nothing major. So one night we got to the point of talking about having sex…after talking and flirting for a bit she asks me, “i take you for a quiet guy…but the question is are you quite in bed”…i feel like i played the situation well and said, “you’d be the first to know”…and all she says back is, “i see” but the tone of it didn’t match the rest of the conversation before…so we keep choppin it up and she finally says, “i’ve never taken anyone’s virginity before”, and it got kind of awkward, so then i tell her, “i feel like would you to be the one to take it”…and she says, “you have to be sure”…so i then say, “ok i want you to be the one to take it”…the the conversation basically stops after that…does that mean we still might have sex???
But then we got into body counts and things of that nature and she says she’s had sex quite a few time…now in my mind i think you have a really high body count, so i ask her, “is it over/under 5”…she’s says, “over”…so then i ask, “over/under 10” and she says, “under”…i had a big sigh of relief when she said under…i’m sorry if that makes me look insecure but i lowkey am…so now we haven’t flirted since and the conversations are as if we kind of just met each other again which is fine i guess since we still talk to each other…but before that we were snapping each other within 3-5 min now it’s more of 15-45 min…and she says i’m the only she talks to so i guess that makes me feel a bit better about it…we’re super bffs on snap so in don’t think i have anything to worry about but at the same time that doesn’t mean anything of a big significance to me…
I ended up apologizing to her for asking her her body count bcs it was none if my business and immoral or me…but now all i can think about is what sex would be like with her…i feel like it really wouldn’t be sex but more of a fwb typa sex if that makes sense…i just don’t know where to go from here….i feel like women could better answer this one than the guys…(there is a 2.5 year age gap and she’s older)